Things you need to stop doing
if you want to be successful
We are aften given advice on what to do to be successful. Here is some advice on what NOT to do!
Too often we act as though time is is infinitely available. There's
always another day? But that's a big mistake. Time flies by and before you know
it, you are old and you haven’t done one half of the things you set out to do
Whether it’s working or having fun, being mindful about how you spend
your time is one of the best things you can do for your life.
Here are 18 time-wasters
to avoid from today.
1.
Running away from your problems. Sooner or later, you will run out of places to run to. Settle your
problems and get it over with.
2.
Cursing the darkness.
We all have struggles and failures, but if you can focus your energy on
a solution — even a small one — you've started the process of finding your way
out.
3. Lying
to yourself.
The truth really does set you free. The beliefs and thoughts that limit
your options aren't representing your truth, and they're keeping you from
realizing your visions.
4. Fear.
It is human nature to be afraid and most of us tend to fear what we
don't understand. If you can understand your fears, you can free yourself from
them.
5.
Negativity.
Focus on yourself with optimism and positivity instead of dwelling on
the things that are holding you back.
6. The
word impossible.
There's no bigger impediment to any achievement than not trying at all,
or trying and giving up too soon.
7.
Winging it.
Success favours those who work hard, put in plenty of time, and do
whatever it takes to make it work. When you do your part, success has a way of
showing up.
8.
Cynicism.
Human understanding and kindness are at the core of the happiest people.
9.
Distraction.
Stop wasting your time chasing shiny objects and focus on what you
really need in your life.
10.
Selfishness.
A truly successful life is made of giving, sharing, and praise, not
taking, demanding, and criticizing.
11.
Overthinking.
Stop overthinking everything because that just makes things worse. Just
do it!
12.
Hoarding.
Any form of hoarding is unhealthy and wastes your time, whether it's
possessions, information, wisdom, or emotion.
13.
Denial.
Look at your life and ask yourself whether what you are doing is truly
representing what's within you; if not, stop denying what you really want and
need.
14.
Criticism.
It's easy to criticize, but it's rarely helpful. Praise is far more
powerful and rewarding for everyone all around.
15.
Comparison.
Remember, everyone has a unique situation and is fighting their own
battles. Stop comparing yourself to others, it's never productive.
16.
Procrastination.
There's no bigger waste of time than putting things off — it adds stress
and takes away options for solving problems.
17.
Complaining.
Taking responsibility today is the first step in accomplishing something
great tomorrow.
18.
Perfection.
Remember, those who seldom make mistakes seldom make discoveries.
Instead of searching for perfection, just do the best you are capable of.
And, above all, stop squandering your gifts. This life is about making
yourself useful and necessary, so find your purpose and run with it.
Who knows what you'll find time for when you let go of all the
time-wasting negatives in your life?
